Every man at some point needs a helping hand with a woman. Don’t let the banter put you off and keep you from bagging the girl! Here are the top ten best pick up lines ever thought of and spoken by a man.
1. A compliment
Chris Rock, noted philosopher and poet, once mused that women need food, water, and compliments. There’s nothing better than getting someone’s attention by complimenting them on something they’ve worked on – their sense of style, and poise. It’s the best pick-up line.
2. An introduction from a friend
Why’s this good? She knows that you have friends. If it’s from a female friend, even better – you’re already pre-selected. If you can attract one woman, you can attract another – it’s how most people’s long-term relationships start.
3. Paying attention
Women appreciate someone who knows what’s going on instead of someone thumbing through mental indexes of canned lines. If there’s something weird happening in the venue, comment on it. If she’s wearing something interesting, comment on it. It’s not rocket science – but it’s effective. The best pick-up line is one that’s spur of the moment.
4. ‘Hey, I’m…..’
Coupled with a handshake and no hesitation, the simplest things are the most effective. You have to remember – people barely remember the first thing they say to each other – if the interaction goes swimmingly, it won’t even matter.
Asking a basic question, introducing yourself, then returning later is incredibly effective for tearing down any kind of resistance somebody would be putting up in a place like a nightclub or a bar. Additionally, you can do this to the entire bar.
6. Something Situational
People who share an event together usually talk about it. If something’s happening that you can talk about – open somebody based off of it.
7. Something Direct
Directness is a sign of value. So if you really want to go up to a girl and tell her she’s attractive, go for it – but don’t hesitate. And be prepared to stay afterwards to build up comfort.
8. Something Normal
Most approaches women hear during the day are bad. All you have to be is NOT bad at talking to strangers. The fact you know the bar is so low should be to your advantage.
9. ‘How’ have you been?’
It sounds a bit cheesy — but it’ll disarm her friends, and get the conversation going. That’s where you do the heavy lifting.
10. Opening her friends
Sometimes, to get the girl, you need to charm the group. So instead of the girl, use lines on the group.
There you have it! The best pick up lines we’ve ever come across that actually get you the response you want.
Now go out and use them with a dabble of confidence, sprinkled with some charisma and you’ll do just fine. Not convinced these are the best pick up lines out there? Give us your own below and let others decide!