So a lot of guys are using pick up lines and getting great results, but for some reason they get stuck after the opening line and don’t know what to do next, duh!
So today I want to talk about how you can build sexual tension during a simple conversation, which means you don’t actually need to talk about anything in particular which is great for guys who never know what to say.
Start using these techniques the next time you’re out:
Touch her lightly
After you’ve said your piece and she’s responded well, start talking about something that she’s wearing or what she was doing before you approached her (the topic of conversation isn’t important) what’s important is her talking whilst you start building sexual tension.
Now if this is in the street, touching a girl on her hand, arm and shoulder is fine but you can only do so much before it looks a little creepy. So save the more sexual areas (stomach, neck, legs and back) for the bars and clubs, where women are FAR more sexual anyway.
The basic point her is, that you touch her every couple of minutes to help her become familiar with you, familiarity is a great way to create trust between you both and trust is what’s needed to take things to the next step with her.
Make sure you slow the hell down when talking! Be way more seductive with your words and talk confidently. You need to slow down your words and movements, pause between every couple of words and keep your eyes fixed on hers.
What will happen is her heart rate will flutter, her eyes will become dilated and you’ll slowly see her becoming aroused.
If you’re movements are jerky and you speak fast, you won’t be able to build any sexual tension, it’s just not possible.
Use this eye contact trick
The eyes are extremely powerful when in a conversation and can seriously help with getting her attracted to you.
Try this little trick; look into her left eye for a couple of seconds, then look into her right for the same amount of time, now move down to her mouth for a few seconds and back up to her left eye again.
What you’re doing is letting her know subconsciously that you want to kiss her and she will pick up on this.
So there you have it, pick up lines are for beginners… but if you want to take your skills to the next level, then you should work on your sexual tension skills too.
Have you tried these techniques? If so what was your experience?