Let’s get straight to the point.
…How bad are you at approaching women?
If your answer was “Yeah, I’m really bad” then you’re going to get a hell of a lot of value out of this post today.
The honest truth is, all men suck… they just don’t want to admit it. In reality, you will only approach a girl you like in a bar for example, if you are full of alcohol and pumping yourself up for 15 minutes before hand.
But why is it so damn hard?
Well it comes down to 2 very simple reasons:
1. Fear
2. Rejection
We fear what might happen and we seriously don’t like rejection. Both of those reasons are more than enough to stop you from going over to a girl.
But what if you knew about a technique that stopped a girl 99.99% of the time… would you be more open to approaching girls?
Of course you would, any guy would.
So today I want to show you two awesome techniques that have been proven to stop girls (even really hot ones) and allow you to use a pickup line or start a conversation.
Ready dude? Cool, here they are…
1. On the move stop
Let’s say you’re walking down the street and you see a girl walking beside you, behind you or even in front of you and you’d like to stop her.
Simple do this… position yourself alongside her and make sure you’re just a few inches in front. Gesture and point behind you before even saying a single word, then look at her and say “Hey, I need to tell you something…”.
Now there are two things at work here. The gesture sparks off curiosity so she thinks that something is behind her that she should be aware of. The second thing is that, you haven’t asked her anything… you’ve simply stated that you need to tell her something.
This works almost always. The only way it can’t work is if she’s running, has her headphones in or is a crazy woman :)
2. On the spot stop
So let’s say you’re in a bar or club and you want to approach a hottie, before you lose sight of her. All you need to do is simply walk over, look her directly in the eye and say…
“Woah, I really need to tell you something missy…”
To which she will look utterly surprised and say “Ok, what?”
Then you can either run a pickup line or something completely different.
The bottom line is this, the approach IS the hardest part and is all down to your current mindset.
Once you understand that in the normal world, nothing really bad can happen, you’ll realise that approaching isn’t that bad at all… it’s actually quite fun and an opportunity to meet someone new in your life.
So that’s it kids. Stop her, use a pick up line and build rapport… simple!