One of the worst things that can happen to a guy when starting out with chat up lines, or even if he’s been using them for a while, is rejection. When a girl says “no thank you” or even worse, tells you to “go away” it can be a big blow to the ego.
Today I want to show you three things you can do the moment you are rejected, to get back on your feet quickly, here they are:
If you use a pick up line and she shouts at you or tells you to go away (a very rare thing to happen by the way) then you need to remain calm. Never over react at the situation, by calling her names or shouting back, that will only make matters worse and will do nothing for helping your game.
Let your self esteem take a small hit and just shrug the rejection off. Move onto another girl quickly, so you don’t give the rejection a chance to sink in. If you do let it sink in, then then negative beliefs will start to reenforce themselves in your mind and a new bad habit will be formed, so be careful.
A lot of guys tend to just walk off if a girl says a simple “no” once they have used a pick up line on them. This is the worst thing you could do, because most girls will say no instinctively. Which means, if you go in a second time, she’ll know that you mean business and you’re not another guy who uses cheesy chat up lines.
If you re-opened her with something like “Erm, excuse me… don’t think you’re getting away from me that easy young lady” or something similar, which will create some humour and warmth.
The more women you talk to the less negative reaction you will get. Sound a little strange? Well it’s true, because you’re going to come across much fewer women who don’t want to speak to you than you will positive interactions. So set yourself a target of at least 5 new women per day that you must open and use a natural pick up line on.
After the first week, you’ll notice a massive difference in your confidence and game. Your banter will be much wittier and your mindset will be getting stronger by the day.