Have you ever been out with your friends, had an incredible time, felt amazing… but most of all noticed that every interaction you had with a girl that night went great, from opening her to getting a number, maybe even more?
Also have you ever been out and EVERYTHING felt like an uphill struggle, talking to girls, getting a drink at the bar, getting into a club or even getting a taxi home. One experience led to another and you felt like crap the whole night?
The difference between those two nights
There is one BIG underlying factor between those two nights mentioned above that make them end up being so completely different and I’m sure you’ve already guessed what it is… vibe.
Your vibe, energy, confidence… whatever you want to call it, is the thing that will make or break your luck with women, also impact how your night, even life goes it’s that powerful.
How to improve your vibe
Stay away from negative people – People that moan or have a negative opinion on absolutely everything are poison for your vibe. Stay the hell away from them, even it’s a family member because they will bring you down.
Be friendly – Try your hardest to smile and be friendly to everyone. Yes there are going to be dickheads out there, but that’s just the way life is. Does this mean you need to be a dick? Of course not, so be friendly and jolly to everyone.
Get into a positive mood – When your spirits are high, so is your vibe and people can detect it straight away… especially women. They have a sixth sense for this stuff and if you’re in a great mood they will want to be around you, it’s simple.
How to get into the best possible state (vibe)
Grab some music – Music is just so good for lifting your state, there is probably one song right now, that when you listen to it, it makes you feel pumped or happy. Listen to that song before going out with your mates.
Buy something – Who said a little retail love wouldn’t be a good idea. If you buy a new shirt, jeans, shoes… whatever, you can’t help but feel good about yourself. So pop out to the shops and pick up something new.